Resources

Curated books, podcasts, websites, and tools to help you build meaningful romantic friendships and authentic connections.

Top Books

Attached

Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
Understanding adult attachment in relationships.

The Art of Friendship

Kim Wier
Practical wisdom for deep, lasting friendships.

Mating in Captivity

Esther Perel
Unlocking desire and intimacy in modern relationships.

Platonic

Marisa G. Franco
How the science of attachment can help you make—and keep—friends.

Friendship: The Evolution, Biology, and Extraordinary Power of Life's Fundamental Bond

Lydia Denworth
A scientific and personal exploration of why friendship is essential for our health and happiness.

Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close

Aminatou Sow & Ann Friedman
A candid look at the joys and challenges of maintaining deep, long-term friendships.

How to Be a Friend to a Friend Who's Sick

Letty Cottin Pogrebin
Practical advice for supporting friends through difficult times.

All About Love: New Visions

bell hooks
A powerful meditation on love, connection, and community in modern life.